Q&A on the Robert Blair Carabuena bullying incident

By Vernon B. Sarne

Why are people rushing to a conclusion after watching a 26-second video? Does anyone know how the incident really started?

What else do you want to see to conclude that what the assailant did is unconditionally wrong? Are you perhaps visualizing that some 10 seconds before the start of the clip, the MMDA enforcer must have been this arrogant bastard harassing his would-be attacker--before completely transforming into the helpless, scared-for-his-life man we see in the video? Even Mike Tyson in his prime didn't have that effect on people.

What if it was MMDA traffic constable Saturnino Fabros who started it all? What if Robert Blair Carabuena was merely provoked?

Seriously? You honestly believe this? Okay, for the sake of objectivity, let's say Mang Saturnino got the ball rolling. What horrible thing can you possibly think of that will justify Carabuena's violent outburst? The MMDA enforcer banged on his hood? I would, too, if a motorist completely ignored my directions. The MMDA enforcer talked in an insolent manner? I would, too, if after many hours of standing in the middle of the road (and getting paid loose change for the effort), a motorist didn't show me some respect and appreciation. Someone even had the imagination to suggest that perhaps Mang Saturnino disrespected Blair's female companion (assuming Carabuena had one).

Let me share with you a thing or two about the mindset of poor people. I'm a little qualified to do so, I think, because I grew up around them. Many of them don't have manners, sure. Many of them are coarse. And many of them are highly capable of violence. But they will not start a fight with a wealthy individual just for the heck of it. There's something about social stature that fazes them.

In Baclaran, where I was born and used to live, even the toughest of the tough would turn into obsequious, meek lackeys around rich people. Sure, the free rounds of alcohol probably help, but something about their body language tells me that the poor would rather not displease someone perceived to be holding an ascendancy over them. They are fully cognizant of the many privileged things affluent people can do to them--shooting or throwing them in jail among these.

Every time an MMDA enforcer steps out onto the streets to perform his often-scoffed-at duty, don't you think he isn't afraid that he could run into a Jason Ivler or a Rolito Go? Think about this for a second: Whenever MMDA personnel report for work, they are risking their own safety out there. They have no idea what kind of a gun-toting psycho could be behind the wheel of the next car. They know that. Do you really think Mang Saturnino would resort to a power trip even after seeing the burly fellow driving that Volvo S60?

I saw a photo of Robert Carabuena wearing a Glock shirt and also a video of him leisurely firing a gun in some shooting range. This guy is obviously a gun aficionado. It's not a stretch to assume he was carrying a firearm in his car at the time of the incident. If he was, Mang Saturnino literally had a brush with death.

Still, doesn't Mr. Carabuena deserve the benefit of the doubt? Isn't it entirely possible that he could be a good person who merely snapped after having had a bad day?

What has this got to do with the issue? We're not talking about the kind of person he is; we're talking about a specific thing he did to an MMDA enforcer on August 11. I don't care if he won the Nobel Peace Prize in the past, he needs to answer for what he committed against Mang Saturnino. Even the Pope won't get a free pass if he breaks the law today (okay, he probably will).

Easy for you to say what you're saying now, but don't you think you're just as capable of doing what Mr. Carabuena did?

First off, I wouldn't attack anyone while wearing a purple shirt. Second, I wouldn't rob a poor man of his dignity. That's all he's got.

Aren't we overreacting by resorting to cyberbullying?

To be honest, I don't think I'm qualified to judge what constitutes cyberbullying or whether a person deserves it or not. But I know this: What is now happening to Robert Carabuena is not tantamount to calling a fat kid "ugly" or making fun of Christopher Lao just because he mindlessly drove his car through deep floodwater. It's one thing to put down a person because of his/her physical flaws or misfortune, it's quite another to condemn a wrongdoing.

Having said that, I do agree that many of the comments posted online about Blair are below the belt and have no place in a decent society. That includes remarks about his physique as well as information detailing his personal data. But let's give it to whoever came up with "Road Rage Barney"; that shit is funny.

Let Blair have his 15 minutes of shame now. It will do him a world of good, believe me. I am absolutely certain that this episode will change him for the better. It will convince him that he cannot go through life believing that the destitute are second-class citizens of this planet. He doesn't need your pity now. His life will go back to normal. Pretty soon, he will be partying again and finding gainful employment again (assuming he gets fired at Philip Morris Fortune Tobacco). But for now, let him bury his face in hiding and embarrassment. He will emerge from this a better person. Probably not by much, but better.

On the contrary, if we let this pass and do not rail against it, we will send a very wrong message not just to society as a whole but more so to our kids. They need to understand now--yes, now when it's so easy and so digitally convenient to trample on others--that every single human being has an equal right to respect, dignity and safety.

Aren't MMDA personnel really arrogant and corrupt? Maybe Mr. Fabros deserved what happened to him?

While there may be crooked people in the agency, it's just plain wrong to assume that every single one of them deserves our scorn. How is the MMDA different from the company that you're working for? I can guarantee you there also walk scumbags among you. Arrogance and corruption aren't exclusive to traffic enforcers. The righteous among them definitely deserve to be acknowledged. Don't act like they owe us what they do for a living. Try managing a bunch of moronic drivers eight hours a day under the sun--for a salary that many of us just spend on two shots of whiskey at some pretentious watering hole.

Last week, I personally hung out with four MMDA personnel who taught me how to use a breathalyzer. They were nice, humble, polite. MMDA officers are real people, not automated machines we can scream at just because we're being ticketed for a violation we committed in the first place.

And what about Mang Saturnino "deserving" what happened to him? There is nothing he could have possibly done that deserved the manhandling he endured from Robert Carabuena. The poor fellow is somebody else's son, brother, father. If somebody did the same thing to my father, I wouldn't think twice about demonstrating the many things one could do with a lead pipe.

How should the authorities handle this case?

Very decisively. If nothing comes out of this, people will lose all respect for authority in general and the MMDA in particular. I've actually seen drivers taunting MMDA enforcers and running away from them after being apprehended for a traffic violation. Order has to be restored. I hope MMDA chairman Francis Tolentino is a fan of The Avengers.

Will Carlo J. Caparas make a movie about the life of Robert Blair Carabuena?

The assailant didn't go on a shooting rampage. Direk Carlo requires a cold-blooded massacre before he starts working on an award-winning script. Fortunately, there exists a TV show called Bubble Gang. (Don't fail us now, Michael V.)

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  • nonshowbiz 9 months ago
    I thought it was a q&a of Carabuenas or the MMDA guy but you turns out you were just talking to yourself... LOL!!
    • d.lake 9 months ago
      me too. pinindot ko yung link agad agad. hahaha
  • Ads 9 months ago
    Ha ha ha...
  • Aloha Milkyway 9 months ago
    Dealing with authority is pretty simple. Abide and they won't cite you. They're actually very helpful! Oh and they're great at giving directions. I've asked countless officers how to get about the Metro. Also, they're very much aware that swerving is not a violation so good.
    • JoHunter 10 months ago
      Actually a few years ago some MMDA officers do flag down motorists for swerving, often erroneously. I had to lecture one or two what swerving really is. Calmly, of course :)
  • gogogo 9 months ago
    kung naging arrogant man yung mmda officer pwede mo naman ireklamo yun sa mmda eh. pero based nga kay mr. fabros hindi nagstop si carabuena nung pinatigil siya. kung nagstop siya nun edi sana walang nangyari diba? sa tingin niyo tama bang magalit si carabuena since siya na nga yung di sumunod sa traffic officer? pasalamat nga siya di siya nagbigyan ng ticket for disobedience eh. saka kung arrogant man si mang saturnino edi sana pinatulan niya si carabuena diba pero umatras na lang siya? at saludo ako kay mang saturnino dahil di niya na pinatulan.
  • lantraluvr 9 months ago
    Not only do I read about cars in TGP, but also get a free anthropology lesson courtesy of Mr. Sarne. Great job, and thanks!
  • Stephmeister101 9 months ago
    If this was not an educated, atenean, or young-professional guy who did this to an MMDA officer nobody would care, pero kasi nakita na ganyan kaya bigla nag burst yung kung anu-anong comments. Yes nobody can cover-up was was on the video and that it was just plain wrong to slap someone especially an enforcer on the face, but stop this st*p*d cyber-bullying you're just the same as him, as arrogant as him. The words you are using now are as destructive as what he used on that MMDA officer. He will be put to justice and that has been taken care of so please stop with this topic already. No matter what you say you're knowledge of the story is still half-baked kaya wag msyado kung magsalita, you say you're not attacking the attitude of Carabuena pero yung mga salita and kung maka husga kala mo hndi nagkakamali. Hndi porket mayaman di narin nkakaranas ng bad day or nabubuysit sa buhay. FOR THE LAST TIME STOP with that "rich kasi naka volvo" mentality which is not even true. Let's just say that the MMDA officer also had his shortcomings, marami sa kanila arrogante din at mayayabang based on so many experiences from people i know and myself included. Yan sinasabi mong experience mo sa 4 na MMDA iba yan kasi wala nmn sila sa kalye at alam nilang part ka ng social media, malamang matitino yan. Subukan mo pag patak ng tanghali ang daming nangpapara ng wala nmn violation. Stop generalizing nga dba? kaya wag mo i-generalize na lahat ng MMDA matino dahil based on many experiences especially ng mga driver ng PUVs mas mdaming lokong MMDA. Bottomline, don't look on one side of the issue and just burst on it like you're all-knowing and you're sooo perfect, mali si Carabuena and he will suffer the consequence pero sana matuto din mga MMDA dito na wag silang loloko loko sa trabaho nila dahil baka makaharap sila ng kagaya ni Carabuena.
    • aargh 9 months ago
      Where in the article did he generalize na lahat ng mmda matino? Which part of "While there may be crooked people in the agency, it's just plain wrong to assume every single one of them deserves our scorn." did you not understand?
    • zvpsix 9 months ago
      YUNG TOTOO? IKAW SI BARNEY CARABUEN-DAT no? HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
    • Knowell 10 months ago
      siguro konyo ka? :)))))))))))))))))
      • Stephmeister101 10 months ago
        Ikaw conio! That's a st*p*d word that filipinos invented. It means something else to the rest of the world
        • Knowell 9 months ago
          :)))))))))))))))))))))))))) google it konyo...........
          • Stephmeister101 9 months ago
            again it's just Filipino made, the real conio word is a Spanish word -___- and it is to the rest of the world
    • Stephmeister101 10 months ago
      I'm not protecting Carabuena. What he did is wrong and he will suffer the consequence. Haven't you read what u said? I'm just saying people should stop with the cyber-bullying and all the hate kasi di nmn perpekto mga tao eh lahat susceptible sa road-rage. Kung magsalita kasi yung gumawa nang article na to kala mo di nagkakamali and prang sobrang bait ng nga MMDA which is wrong. Like i said kung hndi mayaman and hndi educated si Carabuena hndi magiging ganito reaction nyo
    • Stephmeister101 10 months ago
      Read the last part of my comment you idiots. The part i said bottomline
    • ultramagnus 10 months ago
      dude, bat sobrang affected ka? let me guess, either you're (1) prone to road rage, (2) mahilig kang manampal ng tao, (3) palagi kang hinuhuli ng MMDA for traffic violations or (4) you own a volvo? alin dun sa mga yun pre? yung comment mo kasi may pinaghuhugutan e!!!
      • Stephmeister101 10 months ago
        Siguro nga may pinaghuhugutan ako. I'm not prone to road rage madami lng kasi akong kilala na kinitongan ng mga enforcer at nagka experience ndin ako sa mga lokong enforcer. I think dpt matuto ung mga MMDA na wag maging loko dhil baka makasagasa sila nang kagaya ni Carabuena, or worse baka ma-Ivler pa sila
      • Stephmeister101 10 months ago
        BTW Volvo isn't that impressive mas mgnda pa Camry sa S60. Safety lng magnda pero d mo nmn kelangan but ung luxury features nya are nowhere near German cars
  • leo222 9 months ago
    Stephmeister101:

    Hey, the guy did this to himself. The power of social media is overwhelming these days. Make a mistake (go violent) and someone videotaped you and the video leaked, you're a goner. Especially if you are rich and famous. What Carabuena did backfired on him. Now it's his turn. This is called karma.
    • JoHunter 10 months ago
      This reminds me of a Jeremy Clarkson quote: "If you have a weakness in this show, you die." =p
    • Stephmeister101 10 months ago
      Yah i know and he deserves to be f*cked in prison. Yung pag gawa kasi ng article na to ang yabang ng dting. He's actually the same as Carabuena sa mga sinasabi nya. He's knowledge of the story is half-baked pero kung magsalita kala mo alam nya lahat. Bully on the streets and cyber-bullying is just the same, pde nga sya makulong because of cyber-bullying
  • zvpsix 9 months ago
    Aantayin ko to sa Bubble Gang. Sa Sumbong sumbong kay Bonggang bonggang Bongbong. :)) Ang sarap sigurong gawing punching bag tong si Barney.
  • Vernon B. Sarne
    Guys, kausapin nyo nga to ^^
    • Adelbert 9 months ago
      Sir not sure if troll or hindi lang niya nabasa yung buong article.
    • gogogo 9 months ago
      Hayaan na lang natin sir. Mahirap kausap mga ganyan. Di ko alam kung hindi ba nila binasa yung article or di lang naintindihan. Or baka naman tropa lang ni mr. carabuena yan. Hehehe
    • jtl888 10 months ago
      Sir, pasensiya ka na, hindi ko maintindihan si Tonyeng Sanz eh.. Sorry talaga sir VBS.. I AM SORRY. LOL ^_^V
    • JFLising 10 months ago
      Though I must say, his grammar is irritating.
  • NeilL 10 months ago
    Tonyeng sanz,
    I don't think you understood what you have read. tingin ko, dapat si vbsarne ang dapat nagtagalog ng mga nakasulat sa taas.
  • abhie:) 10 months ago
    Ang hindi ko matanggap talaga, e itong si Robert Carabuena ay isang EDUKADONG ATENISTA NA EMPLEYADO NG ISANG INTERNATIONAL COMPANY. Pero ni isang manners wala sya, nakakahiya naman grabe, ayokong tularan yan ng mga kids at mga growing kids. Hindi cool. Kahit gaano pa na nakakainis yung mmda or traffic enforcer, if youre an educated person, you wouldnt resort to what mr.robert carabuena did. Okaaayyy just my two cents. Nice article btw vbs
    • KERSMcPherson 9 months ago
      yan pa lang ang Atenistang hindi marunong umintindi ng instructions ng traffic enforcer..
  • Knowell 10 months ago
    Niiiiice...
  • nestortinam 10 months ago
    Marami din officer not doing their job like in Abad Santos corner Recto, they (MMDA and Manila Traffic Bureau and Police) allow those PUJ to park and get passenger from that corner will cause heavy traffic. These streets where JEEPNEY are KING.
    • Feeter Silverster 10 months ago
      basta mga jeep, may kotong na sa pulis para hindi na sila hulihin, kaya kahit saan sa Metro Manila eh sila ang hari ng kalsada, alam nyo yan
    • jtl888 10 months ago
      Private vehicles to PUVs - "Kayo ang boss ko"
  • JoHunter 10 months ago
    'First off, I wouldn't attack anyone while wearing a purple shirt.'

    'But let's give it to whoever came up with "Road Rage Barney"; that sh*t is funny.'

    BWAHAHAHAHA! =D

  • DePendot 10 months ago
    CaraManBoob mamatay ka na!
  • mgr366 10 months ago
    hmm, nakakahiya nga kahit saan mo tingnan, i left the tobacco industry last year. i have a few friends who are working there. i cannot believe na may ganun klaseng empleyado kasi mahigpit ang PM, hindi ko alam kung paano sya nakalusot sa screening.
  • engr_kristian 10 months ago
    good one, VBS. always a straightshooter!!! oh, nevermind Tonyeng Sanz. it would take all the world's cryptographers to remotely decipher what he's trying to say hehehe
  • ultramagnus 10 months ago
    I wonder, if Carabuena was videotaped doing the same thing to an anonymous TAMBAY, would people react the same way? Some would probably still react negatively but I believe it will give some a pause and consider if the tambay was at fault and if Carabuena did in fact have a right to go ape sh*t on that guy.

    The problem with Carabuena's situation is that he was videotaped publicly, verbally and physically abusing a UNIFORMED person, assaulting a PUBLIC ENFORCER and thus putting himself above the LAW.

    In that regard, I fully agree with Vernon that NOTHING can justify Carabuena's actions. Short of Fabros physically assaulting him, he can argue all he want but the RESPECT should still be there. The authorities MUST take action. If they let this pass, then it will be a clear message to people that you can disrespect the authorities and the law and get away with it.

    But Vernon, one thing I don't agree with is finding "Road Rage Barney" funny. Barney is a nice, arguably cute and beloved by children. Any comparison to that sh*thead is just an ATROCITY and an AFFRONT to BARNEY!!!
  • ultramagnus 10 months ago
    To Tonyeng Sanz: TAGALUGIN mo pre!!! nangyari sa mga mata namin yung nangyari sa ilong mo, NAGDUGO!!! Pero please lang, maawa ka samin at sa sarili mo, pakibasa muna ulit yung article!!! Thank you in advance!!
  • ultramagnus 10 months ago
    I just read in another post that apparently, Fabros SLAMMED and DENTED the Hood of Carabuena's VOLVO. Now, if that's true, is Carabuena's actions now justifiable and acceptable? Guys, what say you?
    • ultramagnus 10 months ago
      honestly, if some guy did that to my car, I'd immediately try to mend the dent . . with his face!!! damn right I''l go ballistic and make sure he won't be doing any more hood-denting for some time to come. BUT, if it was a UNIFORMED ENFORCER. then I'd probably just yell the sh*t out of him, then seek compensation from the OFFICE he reports to, but NOT to he extent of SLAPPING him.
    • KERSMcPherson 10 months ago
      e kung sumunod na lang sana sa TE, hindi kakalampagin ang hood mo. ANd btw, Volvo yung car nya, ganun ba kadali magka dent ang hood ng Volvo sa hampas ng kamay?
      • gogogo 9 months ago
        Yun din yung iniisip ko nung nabasa ko na nagkadent daw nung hinampas. Kahit nga siguro chery hindi naman agad magkakadent kung hahampasin mo lang ng kamay. Parang exage naman yun. Pero kung nagkadent man pasalamat siya di siya yung hinampas ni fabros baka nagkadent din yung mukha niya. Hahaha :)
    • oh_noh 9 months ago
      normally, hinahataw ng palad ng mga traffic enforces ang mga sasakyan ng mga pasaway. volvo naman kotse nya (mukang lumang modelo) kaya hindi yun basta basta mayuyupi. and, no matter what, he has no right to do such cruelty! malas nya lang, na-videohan :)
    • gogogo 9 months ago
      Kung sana tumigil siya nung pinatigil siya ni fabros di naman aabot sa ganyan e. Simula pa lang di niya na talaga nirespeto yung traffic enforcer. :)
    • Stephmeister101 9 months ago
      exactly my point. My fault din minsan ung mga enforcers, minsan kasi sila mayabang and nagpapara kahit walang violation. In this case mali sa Carabuena kasi nagviolate sya pero may ibng case kasi na mali mga enforcers tapos sila pa mayabang. PAra dun sa mayayabang na enforcer na yun dpt magbago sila dahil baka makaharap sila nang kagaya ni Carabuena or ni Ivler. Yung itsura ni Fabros hiyang hiya and takot na takot eh, ang laki kasi nang kalaban nya HAHAHA tapos 2 pa kaya bglang tiklop pero kung maliit lng yun i'm sure gaganti si Fabros nagkataon lng na mas malaki sa knya and naduwag si Fabros
  • KERSMcPherson 10 months ago
    checked his official fb account. Graduate pala ng Ateneo. Ganun siguro ang napag aralan nya sa paaralan na yan. haha. Anyway, madami naman sya kamag-anak dun sa kabilang forum- mga de oto na kapareho ng ugali.
    • gogogo 9 months ago
      wala naman ata sa school yun. ugali niya ata talaga yung ganun. syempre mas malaking factor ang mga tinuro ng magulang mo kesa sa mga tinuro ng school. :)
  • iskwakalogz 9 months ago
    Ang isang taong mahirap pero nagtatrabaho ng maayos at may dignigad ay "Marangal"rnsamantalang ang taong mayaman pero kung umasta parang walang pinag aralan isa rin itong hamak na "Hampaslupa"
  • dweckl 9 months ago
    Good article, Mr. Sarte. Road Rage Barney's perfect. Haha.
    Correct reference on Lao and cyberbullying.

    Stephmeister101, I think you're missing the points--lots of them. Please stop the crap on defending Carabuena. It's pathetic. You only defend the weak and defenseless. Barney can fend for himself, he doesn't need you. Tony-whatever-your-name-is, I think... nah never mind.
    • Stephmeister101 9 months ago
      again i'm not defending him -___- he should rot in prison... Just saying anyone should still look on both sides of the story whatever the case is
  • carwiki 10 months ago
    Sayang naman ang pagka- Atenista at mataas na posisyon, ayaw niya siguro makulong.
  • mjpals 9 months ago
    it doesn't even matter whether Carabuena was provoked or not, it was how reacted to the situation. even if you are right, it does not give you the authority be rude at that level, or at any level. bagama't tama ka, kung mali naman ang ginawa mong reaksyon sa maling ginawa din sayo, nawawala ang pagiging tama mo.
  • matmat 10 months ago
    Actually madali naman pakiusapan yan mga MMDA e. Kahit nga MAPSA sa makati. Basta pag nahuli ka e maging magalang ka lang sa kanila. Hindi mo kelangan magbigay ng lagay para lang makalusot. Baka nga mas ticketan ka pa pag ngalagay ka e. Maybe sa iba tumatanggap ng lagay pero pag naka tyempo ka ng straight na traffic officer baka dumami pa kaso mo. Kaya mas mabuti pa makiusap na lang at maging magalang.
  • mgr366 10 months ago
    Sir VBS, one point that i have to disagree... "Road Rage Barney", yup... hindi dapat si BARNEY... si Lots'O-hugging bear dapat. Sya yun villain sa Toy Story 3... children look up to Barney... hehehehe
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